{"product_id":"speak-to-be-heard","title":"Speak to Be Heard","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\"You never listen\" often means \"I don't feel like we're a team.\"\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSpeak to Be Heard is a complete communication book for couples who keep having the same arguments, feel unheard, or have drifted into politeness instead of closeness. Across 26 chapters, counsellor Natalie Jane shows you what is really being said underneath everyday conflict, and how to talk so that both of you feel heard, including when the answer is not the one you hoped for.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eThis book will help you\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eStop the same argument from going round in circles\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eListen to understand, not to win, and disagree without damage\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eChoose the right moment and tone for conversations that matter\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTalk about intimacy, money, housework and family without it turning into a fight\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRepair after conflict and rebuild trust\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch3\u003eInside\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e26 chapters, from the invisible dialogue underneath everyday arguments to rebuilding trust after betrayal\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhole conversations shown from start to finish\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFair fighting agreements and the Pause and Reconnect Method\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMessages, phones and screens; what is said without words\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhen your partner won't take part, and when to seek couples therapy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCompanion practices, letters to read aloud, a glossary and a guide for reading groups and couples\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch3\u003eYour download\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e268-page PDF (6 x 9 in) in British English\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eInstant download straight after purchase\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRead on your phone, tablet or computer, or print for personal use\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWant the exact words to use?\u003c\/strong\u003e Get Speak to Be Heard with \u003ca href=\"\/products\/the-reconnect-scripts\"\u003eThe Reconnect Scripts\u003c\/a\u003e and \u003ca href=\"\/products\/say-what-you-need\"\u003eSay What You Need\u003c\/a\u003e in \u003ca href=\"\/products\/the-conversation-toolkit-digital-bundle\"\u003eThe Conversation Toolkit\u003c\/a\u003e for £19. Prefer a shorter, hands-on workbook? Try \u003ca href=\"\/products\/say-it-so-they-actually-hear-you\"\u003eSay It So They Actually Hear You\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eIf you feel afraid, controlled or unsafe in your relationship, that is not something to fix with communication tips. Please contact a specialist service.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAbout the author\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eNatalie Jane is a counsellor and ICF-accredited coach who has worked with individuals and couples since 2021. She holds a Level 4 Diploma in Counselling and is the editor of The Relationship Magazine, an international publication on relational health, communication and intimacy.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Natalie Jane","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":45733117820997,"sku":null,"price":2000.0,"currency_code":"ALL","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0759\/2345\/6069\/files\/03_Speak_to_Be_Heard_Cover.jpg?v=1789120087","url":"https:\/\/shop.calmmindtherapyservices.co.uk\/products\/speak-to-be-heard","provider":"Calm Mind Therapy Services","version":"1.0","type":"link"}